Monday, April 26, 2010
Principal and PTA Excited!
Wednesday, March 24, 2010
Just ask.
Just Ask!
The No. 1 reason people state they are not PTA members
is that they have never been asked.
The only wrong way to ask people to join
is not to ask at all!
Events and Free Food are the KEY!
"Our PTA is not very big – as the second language parents are often hesitant to participate. When we do want a lot of parent participation in an event, we offer free food or giveaways. We always have a Spanish translator at events (usually a teacher or aide from the school) and letters are sent home in multiple languages. The other languages are left to their own. The programs I run, like the clothing give-away, book swaps and holiday toy drive, are run by teachers/staff for the benefit of the community, but the community is not involved in the working part."
Though the reading specialist is not boasting a particularly large PTA, I really like some of the ideas about free food and giveways, book swaps, give aways, toy drives, etc. I hate to say it, but these things motivate people. I would love if every parent was able to come to every meeting. But that is not realistic. I know how people feel at the end of the workday. They want to get home and get on with their lives. I myself have only been to a handful of meetings. To get them into the routine of going, they are going to need something to motivate them. This was the same feedback that I got from the former PTA president at my school.
What do you think? Would you come for a free hot dinner? What about a new book for your child?
Parent Interview: "PTA should be the bridge organization for the teachers and parents."
Interview with PTA Vice President
Some of her ideas:
*Breakfast meetings with parents and teachers
*Invite parents into the classroom to share a talent or a skill they may have
*Have "family day" either for your classroom or school. Invite parents to bring a favorite dish to share.
*Tie into existing school events--training on how to use the online portal to view student grades
*Have a Dance/Family night to involve students and parents
*Invite parents to come to existing events like Field Day to volunteer
*Create t-shirts with class "goals" on the back--so parents can see the type of goals the school has for their child
We talked about how families are essential to developing multi-cultural education she really had a great point---how can we expect kids to be comfortable in their schools and classrooms if their parents aren't even comfortable coming into the school and interacting with staff? She made the point that the family/school relationship is very necessary for children to also feel comfortable.
Devil's Advocate
“PTA general sessions can suffer from certain of shortcomings if not handled right – for instance:
· Rushing by the teacher, who wants to dispatch the session, because he/she is either too busy or is uncomfortable facing parents
· Parents who raise a topic of very narrow interest (even “rathole” the conversation about their kid in particular) during a session of common interest
· Superficial feedback by teachers so preoccupied with child’s self-esteem that educational outcomes are glossed over
In that context, one-on-one parental sessions can be far more specific, and address multiculturalism if parents are exposed to how their child reacts to others’ points of views and behaviors, and is tuned to the misconceptions and biases that the parents themselves bring about. It will thus help parents to understand that their attitudes/behaviors/values get imprinted on their children, unconsciously not just deliberately.”
Interesting to see how PTA meetings may be a way to open the door to communication with parents, but one-on-one meetings are still one of the best ways to gain information about students and their families.
Safety Concerns
"I have only attended one PTA meeting at this school--so I am not very informed on what the PTA does. I have not attended enough meetings to know if our PTA embraces diversity."
In response to "What would you like to see in the PTA at our school?" She responded:
"As a parent that has had several safety issues at this school, I would like for them to try to reinforce the importance of the staff following all rules when it comes to releasing our kids as far ask asking for ID and verifying that they person is who they say they are."